So I've decided that a week is Saturday to Friday, and I am allowed to ask guys out, and weekday dates count. Also, a date with an old friend counts if it "feels" like a date. Fair enough?
New question though, do I tell guys that I'm doing this? I've thought about taking a picture with each guy to post here, but then that would sorta require an explanation. I don't want them to feel like a number, but I don't really want to hide it either. What do you think?
7 comments:
Guys should get to experience feeling like a number!
Annie, I have an Idea here. rather than assign each guy a playing card from a deck. Just going out with you once is great, but if they somehow collect five cards, it will mean he has a winning hand.
Maybe I should stare at their boobs the whole time, too!
:)
I think honesty is best, if they can't handle it, something may be wrong. I'm sure if you tell them that you have started this project to chronicle a part of your life, and ask them if they would like to participate, albeit minutely, they would be mostly inclined to. If they are not willing, they either do not have enough interest in you to warrant a second date, or they have fotografizophobia.
I think what you're doing is so "you" so not telling them about it wouldn't be sincerely showing them who you are! Go for it and if they think it's weird then they're not for you! :)
Excellent points, Misshat and Em! I'll keep that in mind and play it by ear. I'm not going to go out of my way to explain it, but if the opportunity presents itself, then I'll talk.
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